Your Words Are Your Wand

I (Bobbi) had a really powerful personal therapy sesh a couple of months back, where the use of my words and descriptions were actually questioned, forcing me to clarify, realizing that they weren’t the words I wanted to use at all.

Examples:

Confidence vs. Clarity
Selfish vs. Self aware
Healing vs. Learning

Without context I know its a bit screwy, but some details I just gotta keep to myself ya’ll…..????

I share because words are so powerful. They create your reality and sometimes, can shift you into further dimensions of knowledge that you didn’t know were possible for you.

SO, what did I learn you ask?

A) You can be confident and block your own clarity around situations, because your ego gets in the way of what is clearly laid out in front of you. It can complicate the most simplest of scenarios, and block access to the most magics of intuition.

B) In intimate relationships its ok to want, need, and even require certain things of your partner/people. This isn’t selfish at all, as long as it comes from the neutrality of self-awareness and not a pain point, reaction or trigger.

C) To heal is such a buzz word, and the intention of that word can be so powerful and beautiful when used correctly. But, isn’t healing just learning? Without gained, purposeful and intentional awareness around your past data, traumas, patterns, you will autonomically (meaning you are unaware they are happening or playing apart in), sabotage your own evolution. 

Self awareness -> leads to Clarity -> Clarity is gained wisdom -> Wisdom is learning -> Learning is healing -> Healing is evolutionary

Words are so so powerful. You must choose them carefully. And if you are like me, it takes a safe container to discover that I was misusing these ones (unintentionally) in the first place.

If you are craving some course correction, inside a supportive echo chamber to hear yourself think, reach out. I’d love to dive in with you!

-Bobbi